Blog 95: opinions, anyone?

salam peeps!

xcited yg amat coz diz is my first entry yg aku type guna my MINNIE ie my beloved gelekshiteb.. hohoho... oleh krn aku ditinggalkan sume org yg sdg seronok berjimba di penang, terpaksalah aku update blogku coz aku tgh boring melampau.. heheh.. boley gitu?

tetibe aku terase nak tulis pasal mende ni pasal aku dah lemas jugakla bile banyak kali aku dengar mende yg same... pasal ape? pasal biznes yg adik aku buat.. sebelum aku menulis dengan lebih lanjut, ingin aku nyatakan disini yg aku bukan diupah untuk membuat apa2 promosi waima dibayar untuk menjatuh dan mengkondem mana2 pihak coz ape yg aku tulis ni hanyalah dr pengamatan n xperience aku sendirik melihat mende2 yg jadik depan mata aku...

aku xkan tulis ape mende biznes uda kat sini, sebab nanti boleh jadik kontroversi kate aku take sides or being biased, so kalu korang nak tau, carikla sendirik link dia kat blog aku ni, hokey... bile some of my friends n her friends n relatives or sape2 lah yg tau adik aku start biznes ni, banyak yg bagi pendapat2 yg pelbagai.. ade positive, ade membina, ade sceptical, ade interested, ade yg was was, ade yg geleng2 kepala, ade yg start bagi pendapat2 'bernas' sendirik n yg paling best... ade yg start mengutuk... (yg ni aku plg x boley layan...)

aku dah ckp yg aku tak kan take sides.. sume org ade hak masing2 nak rase camne, cume kenkadang aku agak pelik ngan sesetengah golongan manusia nih...mmglah zaman ni ade konsep freedom of speech tp jgnlah kita lupa, sebelum bukak mulut tu, pastikanlah kita tau sikit2 pasal ape mende yg kite nak komen supaya kita x kelihatan macam orang bodoh azali... buatla homework sikit, jgn main sedapjek bagi sedas dua pastu bile org counter attack, sendirik terkebil2 pastu start mencarut... hmm... mature, so verrryy mature.....  

mase my sis first kata yg she wants to do this thing seriously, i had 2 admit that i was worried... but don't get me wrong, my first concern was whether she would wake up one day after doing this business for years n years n felt that it was a mistake... tp sekali lagi aku terpikir.. kenapa aku sunguh jumud dgn berpikir demikian? aku try put myself in the same situation but in a different scenario.. would i wake up one day and feel that being a teacher is a big mistake? hmm... perhaps.. but how would i know if aku tak jadik cikgu on the first place, kan? so.. in order for my sis to know whether this thing is a mistake or not, the key point is that she has to try doing what she wants to do dulu... betul tak? n i am a firm believer that if you fail after you tried your very best is far better than being a coward, hiding and being scared of the 'what ifs' pastu sebab saje nak sedapkan hati sendirik, cuba nak cari negative points kondemkan orang yg actually decided to try n do the same thing yg korang x berani cuba... pada aku, org yang banyak cakap but no action ni bukan nya golongan yg 'play safe' (mcm ade yg sesetengah org kata) tp golongan yg pathetic sebenarnya... simple solution, just keep your 'helpful' opinion to yourself n keep your mouth shut becoz nobody ask for your opinion anyway....

next would be the concept of that biznes itself... aku xmau komen2 ape2 coz aku tak suka ckp pasal mende yg aku sendirik x 100% paham tp dr ape yg aku nampak, aku tau yg my sis jual barang yg dia sendirik keluarkan modal (yg bukannya semurah yg banyak org sangka, ye..) n dia dapat untung... so, ape bezanya dia ngan penjual product lain? i know how difficult n demanding her work is... aku yg nampak dia berjaga malam wat powerpoint presentations, preparing n devising her biznes plan, traveling all over malaysia to meet clients, checking n making sure her customers puas hati ngan produk tu from time to time dan 1001 thing yg org lain xnampak. ape yg pasti, aku x nampak pulak yg my sis tidur jek golek2 kat umah, karok siang malam n tetiba masuk duit ribu riban...  jd bayangkan betapa hanginnye aku bile ade manusia yg jadik uztaz/ustazah yg x bertauliah, sibuk ckp pasal konsep halal n haram... haishhh......

pada pandangan aku yg jahil ilmu agama ni, halal n haram is very difficult to justify dengan crystal clearnya... aku yg keje chegu ni pon x boleh kata yg gaji aku 100% halal... yg boleh confirmkan ialah Allah s.w.t shj... contohnya bila aku sakit teruk, masuk kluar wad n xpegi mengajar... boleh aku kategorikan gaji aku minggu tu duit haram coz i did not earn it? tp tak kan nak potong gaji aku sebab aku sakit n sakit ni bukan satu menda yg aku boleh kawal... so, macam mana nak letak hukum pada aku? susahkan? tula pasal, jgn mudah meletak kan hukum pada org lain... ape yg penting, aku tau situasi sebenar yg jadik pada aku n believe me, the guilt of knowing the fact that i still got paid by doing nothing is eating me bit by bit... it's definitely not a good feeling but deep down i know Allah knows best n i hope aku x lupa diri dgn mengambil kesempatan atas musibah yg berlaku pd aku, unlike SOME people... heheheh.... :)

so kesimpulannya... pada ku camnilah... a lot of us love to give our ten cent's worth... our own opinion but limit n channel it ke arah positif. aku tak kesah if ade yg voice out their concern sebab they sincerely care about others tp sadly kebanyakan manusia lebih suka jadik tukang kondem n tukang boo org bile org lain fail... right? but ask yourself this question, yg mana lagi hina? org yg cakap berdegar2 bumbung umah tp habuk pon tarak.. or org yg mencuba berkali2 walaupun dia banyak jatuh dr berjaya? pikirkanlah sendirik.....